Monday, September 15, 2008

Model Students

This afternoon, Nalin went to her friends house after school. While I told her that I would allow her to do that, I told her that she had to call first. Well, she forgot, so after searching the school for her, I went to her friend's house to fetch her.

As we walked home, there were three or four high schoolers from ISB walking about ten feet behind us. I could hear one of the loud ones talking about something, and he said the word "faggot" pretty loudly. I kind of cringed a bit, being as Nalin is only 7, and does not really need to hear that kind of language. I thought for a second whether to say something to him, but I decided to wait. There was a slight chance he had not seen her when he said it, and realized it and would curb himself. Of course, I knew that this would not happen. He was going to say it again in the next thirty seconds. I could feel it. He used the word because he thought it would make the others laugh. They hadn't laughed loudly, so he would try again.

Twenty seconds later, it was something about Ohio and "faggot" again. I turned around and told him not to use that word, pointed at Nalin and said she was a second grader. He just looked at me for a second and didn't say anything, didn't even have the decency to look abashed or apologize. Jackass.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

12 years

Yesterday, September 14th, Tim and I celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary.  

We were actually married three times in 1996.  We were legally married by a justice of the peace on January 6th.  The reason for this was that we were taking a Mediterranean cruise, and the immigration process would be easier if we completed the process before we left.  Of course, the wheels of government can grind slowly, and we were not able to get everything done before the honeymoon.  Part of the problem was that we moved about five miles.  Those were important five miles, as Kentucky and Ohio were in different regions, so we had to start the process afresh.  
Our second ceremony was on September 13th and was performed at our home.  This was a more traditional Thai ceremony.  The next day we were "publicly" married on a yacht on the Ohio river.

So three marriages with no alimony or splitting assets.  Not bad, eh?
   

Sons of Anarchy

FX just launched a new series called the Sons of Anarchy ("SOA"). SOA is the story of a motorcycle club/gang in a small town named Charming. Very shortly into the show, it becomes apparent that SOA is involved in illegal activity, including arms dealing.

The main character is Jackson, a twenty-something member of the club whose deceased father was one of the founding members. As Jackson attempts to follow in his father's footsteps, he is confronted with the morality of the club's action, as well as the premature birth of his son.

Katey Sagal, the actress who played the iconic Peg Bundy from Married with Children, plays Jackson's mother, Gemma. Once again she plays a dysfunctional mother, although this one very different from the apathetic wife of Al Bundy. Gemma is married to the club's co-founder and her deceased husband's former best friend.

Only two episodes have aired, but first impressions are very positive. The show is the product of Kurt Sutter, the creator of the Shield. If you like the Shield and its presentation of the grayness of life and morality, then SOA will probably appeal to you. If you like your good guys wearing white hats and your bad guys wearing black ones, then save your time, the show is probably not for you.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Self Help Club

During my brief layover in Detroit I was perusing the magazine shops looking for a camera magazine. As I did, I couldn't help but notice Playboy and a few other adult magazines gracing the top shelf of one of the racks.

Seeing Playboy up there got me thinking. I guess there are some hotels for the airport and the flight, and some for the hotel afterwards. I can just imagine the look on your fellow passengers' faces when you whip out Playboy. In the very least you'll get a visit from the flight staff educating you on the error of your ways.

Still, I guess there is one use for the Playboy on the flight. You've undoubtedly heard of the mile high club. For those of you neophytes to the sexual vernacular, entrance to the mile high club requires one to have sex on an airplane in flight.

Membership to the club may not be so easy to obtain. Unless you are traveling with your spouse or significant other, your chances probably rest on convincing a stranger to go to the bathroom with you for a quick tryst. While the James Bond's of the world probably have no problem finding a willing partner, for a lot of guys, that is simply not a viable option.

Perhaps some might instead opt to join the much less prestigious mile high solo club. Armed with the newly purchased Playboy, the potential applicant can go it alone, preferably in the restroom. It may not be so thrilling as the mile high club, and he certainly isn't going to get a lot of points from his buddies when he brags about cranking off in the restroom john, but dammit, at least it might help him fall asleep on the rest of the flight.

Cooking Bad for Your Career?

The Thai constitutional court has ruled that Prime Minister Samak was ineligible to hold the PM post and has dissolved his leadership and cabinet. What did PM Samak do to incur the wrath of the Thai court? He simply cooked.

Actually, he did a bit more than cook. PM Samak is quite well known here in the Kingdom for his cooking prowess. Prior to becoming PM, he was hosting a cooking show on one of the Thai TV channels. He continued the weekly show after assuming the PM duties.

The problem is that the Thai constitution states that the PM may not have any employment outside the government. Since the television station paid PM Samak a salary for his show, the court ruled that he had outside employment. Instead of allowing him to correct that by resigning from the show, they invalidated his government, requiring Parliament to chose a new PM and cabinet.

The Thai court ruling did not necessarily mean a permanent end to Samak's role as PM. He was not punished or banned from Parliment, and indeed still held his seat. He could simply resign from the television station and the MP's could once again vote him as PM. This would essentially make the Thai court's ruling moot. At first, it appeared that this is exactly what would happen. After the ruling, key PPP (People's Power Party) members indicated that they would support PM's Samak's return to power.

Unfortunately for PM Samak, things are not always as they appear in Thai politics. Within a few days, support for PM Samak had evaporated, and it became clear that he would not be PM. He resigned from the head of the PPP party.

Perhaps what is the most interesting is that former PM Thaksin, who many claim is pulling the strings for the PPP, supported Samak's return as PM. Its not clear whether Thaksin's influence has waned after his flight to England to avoid prosecution, or whether he really supported Samak.

And You Thought Red Light Cameras Were Bad

There are probably thousands of places to get a massage in Thailand. Some are completely on the up and up, no hanky panky goes on. Others will give you a happy ending for an extra fee, while others are nothing more than a front for prostitution. A massage parlor is a place that specializes in prostitution, usually for wealthy locals. According to my research, online not field, these places will sometimes accept foreigners for an extra fee.

If Bangkok governor candidate Leena Jungjanja gets her way, however, that smile that you leave the massage parlor with may cost you a lot more than a couple of thousand baht. Ms. Leena's pro-family platform includes installing cameras outside of massage parlors. The video would broadcast on the Internet so that wives can check up on their husbands.

Fortunately for the more philandering type, Ms. Leena will not be the governor of Bangkok. She is in single digits in the polls. Perhaps one might think that she might strike a cord with Thai women fed up with their cheating husbands. While her idea might appeal to some, it really goes against the grain of the Thai concept of saving face.

These cameras would broadcast the husbands infidelity not only to the wife, but to the rest of the world. It would be very humiliating to the woman to have it out in the open like that. I'm not saying that Thai women relish their husbands going to a massage parlor, but for many, a quiet tryst is much preferable to a public outing. I remember hearing a story about a Thai woman whose husband was having an affair. She might have suspected it for a while, and certainly didn't like it, but she accepted it. Men will be men is sometimes the philosophy. When the guy started doing it in the open and made no effort to hide it, that's when it was too much for her. He had humiliated her.

Its like that a lot here, as long as its not blatantly out in the open, people can contently ignore it. Thais are very good at blissfully ignorant.

If by some miracle Ms. Leena's idea became law, maybe Thais could borrow a page from the red light camera's book. Just send a picture of the offender entering the massage parlor along with a ticket. Its not like he is going to court to fight it and make you prove that he actually had sex there. Of course, if he's not the one who opens the mail, there could be hell to pay.

30 Hours Door to Door

Well, I'm finally back in Thailand. From the time I left my house in Cincinnati until I stepped in our home in Thailand, approximately thirty hours elapsed.

So how did I spend this time? About twenty one hours was flight time; one hour to Detroit, thirteen to Tokyo, and seven to Bangkok. I spent an hour and a half driving to and from airports. The remainder was spent waiting in airports.

Overall the trip was not too bad. The flight to Detroit was short and unremarkable. I was very lucky on the flight to Tokyo, as the seat next to me was empty. The extra room makes such a difference. Instead of being shoulder to shoulder with the person next to you, you can stretch out a bit.

Right up until the gates closed for the flight to Bangkok, it looked like karma was really grooving with me again, as the seat next to me was empty. Alas, no one's luck is that good in these days of overcrowded flights, and the seat was occupied at the last minute.

The travel gods once again smiled favorably upon me once we arrived in Bangkok. While the walk to immigration was ten or fifteen minutes, when I arrived I was processed in under five minutes. Of course, a quick jaunt through immigration is only one part of getting out of the airport quickly. All that time avoided waiting in line at immigration can easily be spent standing around watching the luggage carousel go round and round. I was spared that fate, as within five minutes of my arrival, my large pinkish purple bags came into view. You might laugh at my less than testosterone drive choice in baggage color, but when people are trying to figure out if each passing black bag is theirs, I know when my bags arrive.

The trip is never fun, but this one wasn't too bad.

Back

Its been a few weeks since I've blogged or taken a picture for that matter. Getting our house in Cincinnati ready to rent out turned out to be a much larger endeavor than I had originally anticipated.

My three week trip turned into a five week packing, cleaning and painting fest. Mom, dad, Dave and Joe helped out, but there was so much to do. By the end, I was just wanting to get done.

The trip wasn't all work and no play. When I arrived back in the states I went on a three day convention trip with some friends. The convention was Gencon, a large gaming (the geek, not gambling variety) convention that I first attended back in 1991. The most memorable part of the con was playing a drinking version of battle cards with the guys, checking out some indie films, admiring our enormous hotel suite, and drinking the strawberry water at the hotel. They had a large water dispenser in the hotel, and it had ten or so dozen strawberries in it. The water had a slight strawberry taste, which I rather enjoyed.

In any case, I am back in Thailand now (more about that later), so the blogging should be more regular.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Thailand Update

Well, although I am here in the U.S., the drama that is Thai politics goes on. Here are a couple of interesting developments.



Bail Jumper



Former PM Thaksin had returned to Thailand to face financial malfeasance charges against him. He was out on bail with his wife, who was awaiting sentencing on her tax fraud conviction, as well as other new charges against her.

Apparently PM Thaksin questioned whether he would receive a fair trial in Thailand and decided to skip bail and go to England. He had spent a considerable amount of time since he was deposed in England where he owns the Manchester City soccer club.

Being a billionaire bail jumper is a lot better than those of more modest means. Instead of hiding out in cheap hotel and looking over his shoulder for Dog the Bounty hunter, PM Thaksin continues to live a luxurious and public life.

Protesters

Some of those involved with deposing Thaksin in 2006 were not happy with the government that Thais elected in late 2007. The People's Alliance for Democracy (PAD) have been protesting since mid-May against the current government.


This past week, the PAD protesters stormed seven government agencies in an attempt to shut down the PM Samak government. They briefly took over a government television station, taking it off air for an hour or so.

While protesters have been largely non-violent, they have blocked some streets and caused some disruption. I believe that some of the buses to ISB (my children's school) were cancelled due to streets blocked. The protests were not, however, near Nichada (my neighborhood) or ISB.


The PM is seeking help from the military to end the protests. Of course the last time the military got involved in Thai politics was the coup of 2006. I'm sure that's not what PM Samak has in mind.

Update

I had to move my trip back to Thailand from 8/30 until 9/8 in order to get everything finished on time. I hate moving.

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Good to Be the King

Thailand's King Rama IX is the world's richest monarch with a fortune of approximately $35 billion dollars. He is also probably the most popular monarch on earth (among his subjects).

Most Thais are Buddhists, and they believe that your station in life is based on how you were in a previous life. Those who live a wicked life might come back as a beggar, or even an animal of some sort. Those who are good will come back in a better position. If that is to be believed, King Rama IX led exemplary previous lives.

In addition to reincarnation, Buddhist do believe in a heaven and hell. The concepts are somewhat different than in Christianity. Of course heaven is bliss and hell great suffering, but in Buddhism, one does not end up in one or the other. They recognize that we are both good and bad. Each person would spend some time in heaven for the good they did, and time in hell for their sins. So even someone who lived a very good life would spend some time in hell, albeit they would have earned a much shorter stay than someone like me. After you do your time in heaven and hell, you return again to the earth, at least until you reach enlightenment.

I like the accountability for your sins, even if you ultimately are a good person. Additionally, I like the recognition that even people who are by and large bad usually do something good.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Packing and Cheap Tripods

Today Dave and Joe came over and helped me to load some of the furniture into the pod. The whole packing experience is just not very much fun.

This evening I went to downtown Cincinnati for an hour or so to take a few pictures of the suspension bridge. I left my nicer tripod back in Thailand figuring that the cheap one that I had here would suffice for a few weeks.

The difference between a cheap and a nice tripod became very apparent today. I was shooting over a chain link fence at one point, so I had to fully extend the tripod. I was also using my heaviest lens (Canon 70-200 2.8 IS). The tripod was actually swaying and I had a hard time keeping it stable. I actually got some blurry pictures using the tripod.

I was pretty disappointed in the overall quality of the pictures, so I won't post any.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

The Dark Knight

Tonight I finally saw the latest Batman movie, The Dark Knight. The biggest surprise was not how much I enjoyed the movie, but how long it took me to finally see it.

I really enjoyed The Dark Knight and think it was the best movie in the Batman franchise to date. In fact, its one of the best super hero movies ever made. It captured the darkness of the Batman character and his villans. The movie was about two and a half hours long, but unlike some films, it didn't seem like it.

Heath Ledger's portrayal of the Joker was infinitely superior to Jack Nicholas'. Of course, some of that may be a result of the scripts or the overall tone of the respective films. Ledger's Joker is down right creepy and I liked it.

Of course, like any super hero movie, a certain amount of suspension of belief is required. Not the kind of suspension that you need to watch a guy fly around with a red cape or swing through town on a web, but a little more than you need to follow Jack Baeur through a day.

Even if you are not a a super hero fan, if you like action movies, I think you'll like The Dark Knight.

A Bit Sad

While Aleena was very excited about starting at ISB this month it was a bit sad that she was not longer going to school with her best friend McKayla. I never really understood how three year olds could be so close to each other, but those two girls were two peas in a pod. They were in a race at Magic Years last year, and they actually held hands and walked with each other instead of running.

ISB's cutoff date for children's birth is 9/1. Aleena just barely sneaked in under the wire (August 21), while McKayla missed the date by a few months (November birthday). Interestingly, Nalin's birthday is September 8th. Fortunately Nalin had already completed Kindergarten in Ohio where the cutoff was the end of September. Since she had already completed Kindergarten, ISB let her start first grade despite missing the September first deadline.

Apparently McKayla is taking the separation pretty hard. Tim said that McKayla has been crying at school because she misses Aleena, and that she is writing ten cards a day to Aleena. They do get together for play dates though.

Packing...

I'm in the middle of packing the house up so that we can try to rent it out. I hate packing. It sucks. Did I say that I hated it?